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A Millennial Gift Guide: Parent Edition

Dear Millennial,

This is your mother. The holidays are quickly approaching. Time to coordinate our calendars. I’m learning so much through The Mahogany Workplace about the millennial men and women in my life. In my desire to stay relevant in this world, it may be good for us to have a little talk about the holidays.

Your honest thoughts — without fear of crushing a longstanding ideal about holidays and gift-giving — are appreciated. We’re all adults here. And I wonder if it’s time to rethink old-fashioned notions of gift giving and celebrating with one another.

You’re no longer a child. Your toy catalog looks different these days. And I’m at the point in life where there is very little left on my list — problematic for both sides.

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Mother Teresa once said, “It’s not how much we give, but how much love we put into giving.” Giving is the most beautiful expression of love. We all have our own ideas of what giving and gifting looks like as love. How we receive gifts also speaks to our language of love.

(If you haven’t read The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman, I highly suggest it. It is a great tool on loving well when you understand how someone is wired to give and receive.) Okay, I’m off track here.

Your generation has an opportunity to take all that makes you strong, independent, tech-savvy, rather self-indulgent individuals and share your life in a way that’s a special gift to your parents.

Here are a few suggestions that utilize your skills and perspective. Gift us with something we would never justify for ourselves, like sunglasses that cost more than $10. Try something a little frivolous and extravagant, like a wine fridge or car-wash booklet. What about something extra nice to replace that “old thing,” like high-quality luggage. Help us navigate one of your trendy restaurants. Applebee’s is getting old!

Another newer option on the gift-giving scene: a subscription box. There are so many to choose from and we probably wouldn’t subscribe to one ourselves. Try a monthly coffee delivery from Generous Coffee or a meal delivery service. Dad might appreciate a men’s razor club; mom might love a subscription to a wine club.

Encourage us in a new hobby. You could get dad a vintage record player and a couple albums from the ’70s. Or have mom try bird-watching with new binoculars and a guidebook. Try tickets to a Broadway production or annual passes to a museum or zoo. Your parents might love tickets to a sporting event.

Treat your parents to some tech support. Sit with mom and help her clean up her cell phone and iPad. Share a new app with dad — maybe a cool golf app for distance. Millennials underestimate less physical gifts, like donating to a charity in your parents’ name (Tell us which one you choose!) or simply spending some extended time with your mom or dad.

Millennials, you are light years ahead of us when we were your age. You are doing and experiencing things we dream about for retirement. We don’t always understand your choices, but we admire your adventurous spirits.

It’s no secret you face pressures and challenges that we never knew. Come visit. Sit awhile and let’s talk. Let us in for a few minutes. Tell us your stories and struggles and ask what’s new with us. This isn’t expensive, but it’s priceless.

Love you, Mom

What are your thoughts on gift giving as a millennial? What would a great gift be for you?

By Amy Higgins

Featured photo by Rachel Peterson of RP Imagery

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6 Comments

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    Meg
    November 24, 2017 at 5:26 pm

    Love this!

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    Houston
    November 24, 2017 at 5:48 pm

    This was so wonderfully written and sweet!!

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    Meg
    November 24, 2017 at 6:18 pm

    Someone looks like their mama!! Cute blog post 🙂

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    Molly
    November 24, 2017 at 9:48 pm

    Gift giving is hard sometimes! I try to always make gifts super personal and meaningful. I also have a habit of trying to out-do my previous-year gift(s). I try to give meaningful gifts because those are the types of gifts I love to receive. My favorite gift I’ve ever received was a “Grandmother Remembers” book. It has old photos from my grandma and has memories she has from when I was growing up. It’s my most treasured gift. Long story short- meaningful gifts regardless of age–those are what I like to give.

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    Chrissie
    November 28, 2017 at 10:26 pm

    Loved this article! So well written! Lovely!

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    RaKia
    November 29, 2017 at 7:58 am

    Loved this! Thank you!

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